Dear Len and Rosie,
I am one of nine adult children. Our 81-year-old very stubborn mother owns her home free and clear. She is a bit gun shy about discussing her estate, and she has no will. Whenever we try to talk to her about getting a will or a trust, she always says, “Don’t rush me into the grave.” Her only concern is that all nine of us get an equal share of the house after it is sold.
Read more at https://www.santacruzsentinel.com/2021/02/07/elder-law-mother-avoids-creating-will-to-leave-for-nine-children/